Well hello blog readers! Thought I should say that because up until this week... I pretty much thought maybe 4 people were checking this out... no one ever comments... well unless its via BBM or txt... yikes!
My last blog post was talking about a certain boy I had gone on two dates with... who really wanted me to call him... well... he read that. Then he emailed me and apologized and asked if we could keep seeing each other... I really respected that email but... it was sprinkled with dashes of desperate and capitalized with crazy! Anyways... he told me to delete the blog post.... HA! Ya no he seriously said that... and clearly that was not going to happen so I said that and said we're done here... take care. Yup not the end... he still sent me another email where he said that my watching of the movie "the ugly truth" was pretty much the reason things feel apart... ummmm reality check... that is not why things fell apart. However... to be fair to him... I think I know what went wrong... and since he read the last post lol fml... maybe he's reading this too so here ya go....
When you join a site like Eharmony... quite frankly there's already some level of desperation. You are clearly not meeting people in conventional ways... so you try a new thing. Second level.. you pay for it. So you want to get something out of it... aka a girlfriend or boyfriend. More pressure equals higher desperation level. Who wants to pay for something and walk away empty handed. And if you're getting to the end of your "subscription"? Even higher desperation! Okay now one more ingredient... this guy has a career where you don't have you're own space... anyways I won't get into specifics but... it would be really for him I'm sure to have a girlfriend with a place... yada yada... Look what I'm saying is this guy was likely "clingy" even though he hates that word... for several reasons. With age comes experience dude. Live and Learn. And block on Facebook.
Okay moving on... Forgiveness... think about it. What should we forgive? When should we forget? Second chances.... who deserves it? I have been thinking about this mega time lately! For very specific reasons... that may or may not be reading this blog right now.
Here's a story... and I'm sorry (lol I might break out in to song... or tears telling this) to this person who sent me this text. If you are reading this... you may hate that I'm about to write about this... but how can I not. I don't know anyone else... whose ever had this happen.
Ok this was sent Friday at 11:49 am - "Hey hun i invited you to my baby shower but it made a few ppl uncomfortable so i think its best if you didnt come.. I still consider you a friend and hope you understand! thanks"
Please let that process... maybe read it again. Yes... I was UNinvited to a baby shower... via txt. Ohmygod my heart hurt. Seriously... please msg or call or hug me if that has ever happened to you. To just be uninvited anywhere! So mean! Especially via text! Ohmygod! Oucharoo. It's fine though. Its the way it needs to be. My presence would make someone uncomfortable. Haha actually the thought of me makes this chick uncomfortable. And I know why... but hey baby! What goes around comes around!!
Oh what else... well I had a date on the weekend.... we shared deep fried dill pickles! I went to visit my mum and dad. I went for a tour of the local SPCA and cried... I wanted to adopt all the animals.. especially the cute orange kitty who reached through the bars and touched my bum and looked at me as if to say "please lady... take me home... i know you have delicious snacks" (ahem Wendy that was for you). There was also a cute poochie I wanted to... named Bonnie! To end this blog on a high note... Bonnie got adopted. Yay! Seriously people... adopt pets.. fix yours and donate to animal shelters. Ohmygod those are good people you work there! Amazing.
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P-S I think three cats would put me in crazy cat lady territory so I don't think I can get one just yet. Yet!
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